I remember in the early days after having Sebastian, I managed to bake a cake and felt a real sense of achievement. A new bar was set in terms of ‘getting things done’!I was lucky to be surrounded by an amazing new parents group who I am still friends with four years on. A few months into the leave I managed to keep my days busy by planning the extension to our home. I hand drew our house plans and got them passed through council and VCAT objections. After my first round of parental leave, I returned to work for 10 months and then had my second child, Gabriel, in July 2018. How has parenthood changed your perspective on life and career? At three weeks old our second child, Gabriel, suffered from meningitis. Two years down the track, I see it as a life event that has changed my perspective on life and career. I have more empathy having seen firsthand the fragility of life. Everyone has a battle going on and I am more mindful of that now – we are all so different and that is okay; we have different values, different life experiences that have shaped us and it’s okay for us all to embrace those differences and be the best version of who we want to be. I have always been achievement driven (sometimes to my own detriment!) and am driven to create the best workplace for my colleagues, however since becoming a parent I also want to create a better world for my children. I have formed a clear line between work and family - I have never been one to work overtime, but I will work efficiently and deliver during my work days.
Your husband, Patrick, also works at Ford. How do the two of you share the juggle of work and life in a practical sense?
We both work four days per week and have discussed that we think we will never change that. It’s great having a day per week (in addition to the weekends) to spend with the kids. We are truly equals and split the ‘home work’ evenly between us.
It wasn’t always that way though, and when I first went on parental leave I did the lion’s share of the duties at home. Interestingly, I felt guilty when Patrick and I began sharing home duties, and it was Patrick who pointed out to me why I shouldn’t feel that way. We have experienced a big mindset shift to become truly equal in our careers and as parents.
COVID has been tough and we have been working from home for six months juggling the kids between us two days per week while we work. It’s taken its toll, but we are a pretty great team. Working for the same company definitely helps us both.
What are the benefits of you both working for the same organisation? Are there any challenges?
Ford is a community and we love working with our ‘Ford family’. Patrick’s brother and cousin also work at Ford, as does my cousin, so between us we have established a huge network of family and friends! Ford is very much a ‘family’ business. We have a number of lifetime friends that we meet up with on weekends for coffee or trips away. Knowing so many people at the organisation makes both our jobs easier, and we thrive in bringing people together.
We haven’t come across any challenges as yet so let’s hope it continues that way!
Your experiences as a working parent have inspired you to support other parents at your organisation. How have you done this?
I have been inspired to question the ‘rules’, and as a result we have made some policy changes to make the workplace more family-friendly. To mention a few:
- Children are now allowed onsite, which means we have school holiday programs and parents can bring their kids into the office (we also do this for dogs at certain points of the year – pets are part of the family too!).
- Keeping in touch days are promoted and encouraged.
- Parents can keep their laptops while on parental leave, which allows them to keep in touch.
Keeping in touch and being able to communicate what I wanted for the next step of my career as well as where I was at personally, meant that while on parental leave I was offered a promotion, and that the company adapted it to a job share position so I could take it on while managing everything else I had going on.My tips to make job-sharing work are:
- Constantly check in as a partnership on how you are working together and adjust as you learn.
- Don’t be afraid to acknowledge when things need to change or could be more effective and efficient.