Low parenting workload equality
Fathers are today more than ever involved in their children’s care and upbringing, however women still account for 94.9% of all primary carer’s leave utilised3 and spend twice as many hours on unpaid care of children than men4. A more equal balance in parenting would make it possible for more women to have a career and, I believe, children are richer for receiving more equal attention from both parents.Childcare affordability
Prior to returning to work, most women weigh up their household income and increased childcare costs and quickly come to the conclusion that the cost of childcare outweighs their expected income. This results in many mums making the decision to stay home till their children go to school. Even when both parents are earning the same amount, personal preferences and societal expectations mean we tend to regard this cost as a tax on the mother’s earnings.Lack of employers accommodating flexible working arrangements
Despite acknowledged productivity gains from returning mothers, employers continue to offer part-time and flexibility in executive roles in a tokenistic fashion. There is also a lack of female support programs and active coaching and sponsorship to build confidence and help mothers grow their careers. The sad reality is, when a mother considers returning to work, the barriers are simply too high to overcome unless she is surrounded by empowering and encouraging influencers (family or work colleagues) and has the financial stability to invest in her career. In the first five years of my sons’ lives, the majority of my female friends have either partially or fully pulled themselves out of the workforce or set up their own home businesses. A number have rejected promotions, some have even had to fight via unions and the ombudsman to keep their jobs. I don’t want to tell my niece that the world is not her oyster and she will have fewer career opportunities than her brother so she is better off narrowing her career choices. I want to see a world where:- All men have equal paternity opportunities to women. That their role as father is celebrated and respected equal to a mother’s.
- There is domestic equality in homes, where all family members contribute to the house no matter age or gender without discrimination.
- Affordable childcare is available to every family.
- Employers embrace workplace flexibility and staff are empowered to work where, when and in the way that makes them most productive.